No one to one mapping!

One of those vetti days- heaps to finish but distractions in the mind led me to read quite a few blogs. Interesting that I write this after the Bob Marley quote.

Explain to me what love is- exaggeration of hormonal imbalance.
I got to say there is no “one love”.

I have liked (which could eventually have grown into love) many guys through the course of my life who-

- I have admired him from a distance but never got the guts to approach him.

- I was not sure if he would reciprocate and did not want to lose a good friend.

- I enjoyed his close friendship but only when I distanced, realized the feelings.

- Felt stupid not to have understood his feelings (hit me for that)

All of the above mainly because I never ever had the guts to confront to any that I actually liked

Pleasantly enough had a guy take the first step and here I am blissfully happy. He and I concur that there is no “the one” concept but it is just the circumstances and timing that make you take decisions. It is very admirable to live with your “found” love peacefully and happily.

I am very satisfied for my present life- have the freedom I wanted, the independence I dreamt for, the love that could never be matched, the solitude that I enjoy and the strength of me and the bonding that he has given me

Masha Allah!

Someone special!

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
― Bob Marley